Thursday, January 28, 2016

I gave my husband a kidney, then he dumped me... now I wish I could take it back

Andy Lamb was dying of renal kidney failure and was being kept alive by weekly sessions of dialysis
His wife Samantha persuaded him to have one of her kidneys 
Andy left his wife in August 2012 but says he owes his life to her.
Andy Lamb is having affairs with another woman (Samantha friend) and always having sex chat online.


A wife who saved her dying husband’s life by giving him one of her kidneys wants it back after he walked out on her.
Andy Lamb was suffering from renal failure and was only being kept alive by dialysis sessions, until his wife Samantha persuaded him to take one of her kidneys. 
Mrs Lamb, 41, lost more than 3st in weight to make sure that she would be healthy enough for the transplant operation in October 2009. 
The couple were even filmed for a BBC show which documented the story of her gift of love. But they did not live happily ever after. 
Just a few years after the life-saving procedure, their marriage was over when Mr Lamb walked out on his wife in August 2012.
Mrs Lamb is adamant that her husband started having an affair with her friend – a claim he categorically denies.
He moved his belongings out of their marital home one evening while she was working a night shift at Tesco. 
He also took the TV and stereo before posting the keys through the letterbox without a note or letter, she claims. 
The couple, from Ivybridge, Devon, met when they were both drivers for a private ambulance firm and started dating in 2004. 
After a brief split, when they had to live apart from each other for a short period of time, they decided to get married in 2007. 
However, Mr Lamb’s condition meant he soon became dependent on gruelling dialysis sessions. 
His wife explained: ‘He needed a new kidney or he would die. He was on dialysis three times a week. I told Andy he should go through with it [the transplant].

‘He had children from an earlier relationship and he wanted to be there for them.’ Mrs Lamb says she now regrets donating the kidney to her husband and wishes she could have it back – if only to donate it to someone more deserving. 
She told the Sunday People: ‘I would definitely go through the operation again but I wouldn't give the kidney to him.

‘I hate him. If I could, then I would take it back and give it to someone else.
‘Obviously I don’t want people to be put off putting their names on the organ donor list. 
‘But all I want from him is his name on the divorce papers.’

Source: Real News US  

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South African preacher makes congregation eat GRASS to 'be closer to God'



Carried out under instruction of Pastor Lesego Daniel in Garankuwa
Claimed that humans can eat anything to feed their bodies
Photos that follow show dozens of people getting sick in the toilets 
By JILL REILLY


A South African preacher made his congregation eat grass to 'be closer to God' before stamping on them.
Under the instruction of Pastor Lesego Daniel of Rabboni Centre Ministries dozens of followers dropped 
to the floor to eat the grass at his ministry in Garankuwa, north of Pretoria after being told it will 'bring 
them closer to God.'

His controversial methods have drawn criticism from thousands of people although members of his 
congregation swear by his methods - he is said to have claimed that humans can eat anything to feed 
their bodies and survive on whatever they choose to eat.

Under the instruction of Pastor Lesego Daniel of Rabboni Centre Ministries dozens of followers dropped 
to the floor to eat the grass at his ministry in Garankuwa, north of Pretoria


One woman claimed eating the grass stopped her having a sore throat, while another said
it healed her after a stroke

The congregation were told eating the grass will 'bring them closer to God'


'Yes, we eat grass and we're proud of it because it demonstrates that, with God's power,
we can do anything,' Rosemary Phetha told South Africa's Times Live.
The 21-year-old law student says she had been battling a sore throat for more than a year,
but it was healed after she ate the grass.


An image of the bathrooms show women clutching their stomach, while the men are 
vomiting in the sink

One outraged commentator said 'Is this a scene in a movie...this can't be real.
God created animals to chew grass and made human beings to dominate over animals. 
Any person who reduces human beings to animals is definitely not of God.'
While another person wrote: 'Why is he stepping on people? This is inhumane.
Shocking.'
The Times Live reported that during a service of at least 1,000 people in a marquee
Daniel screamed 'sleep' and six people went to sleep.
He ordered other congregants to slap and trample on them, tut the sleepers remain rigid and 
unresponsive until he ordered them to wake up.
'You can leave them like this for six months. I love this, I don't want to be bored.
You can even make police go to sleep when they come to arrest you,' he said.
Although Daniel has not responded to the backlash yesterday he posted on Facebook:
 'God is at work and His people are testifying right now st the farm. TO GOD BE THE GLORY.'

Source: Daily mail UK


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Wednesday, January 27, 2016

GREAT MARRIAGE STORY 



GREAT MARRIAGE STORY


My husband is an Engineer by profession, I love him for his steady nature, and I love the warm feeling when I lean against his broad shoulders. Three years of courtship and now, two years into marriage, I would have to admit, that I am getting tired of it. The reasons of me loving him before, has now transformed into the cause of all my restlessness.

I am a sentimental woman and extremely sensitive when it comes to a relationship and my feelings, I yearn for the romantic moments, like a little girl yearning for candy. My husband is my complete opposite, his lack of sensitivity, and the inability of bringing romantic moments into our marriage has disheartened me about love.

One day, I finally decided to tell him my decision, that I wanted a divorce. “Why?” he asked, shocked. “I am tired; there are no reasons for everything in the world!” I answered. He kept silent the whole night, seems to be in deep thought. My feeling of disappointment only increased, here was a man who can’t even express his predicament, what else can I hope from him? And finally he asked me:” What can I do to change your mind?”

Somebody said it right, it’s hard to change a person’s personality, and I guess, I have started losing faith in him. Looking deep into his eyes I slowly answered: “Here is the question, if you can answer and convince my heart, I will change my mind, Let’s say, I want a flower located on the face of a mountain cliff, and we both are sure that picking the flower will cause your death, will you do it for me?” He said:” I will give you your answer tomorrow….” My hopes just sank by listening to his response.

I woke up the next morning to find him gone, and saw a piece of paper with his scratchy handwriting, underneath a milk glass, on the dining table near the front door, that goes…. My dear, “I would not pick that flower for you, but please allow me to explain the reasons further..” This first line was already breaking my heart. I continued reading. “When you use the computer you always mess up the Software programs, and you cry in front of the screen, I have to save my fingers so that I can help to restore the programs. You always leave the house keys behind, thus I have to save my legs to rush home to open the door for you. You love travelling but always lose your way in a new city; I have to save my eyes to show you the way. You always have the cramps whenever your “good friend” approaches every month; I have to save my palms so that I can calm the cramps in your tummy. You like to stay indoors, and I worry that you will be infected by infantile autism. I have to save my mouth to tell you jokes and stories to cure your boredom. You always stare at the computer, and that will do nothing good for your eyes, I have to save my eyes so that when we grow old, I can help to clip your nails, and help to remove those annoying white hairs. So I can also hold your hand while strolling down the beach, as you enjoy the sunshine and the beautiful sand… and tell you the colour of flowers, just like the colour of the glow on your young face… Thus, my dear, unless I am sure that there is someone who loves you more than I do… I could not pick that flower yet, and die.. ”

My tears fell on the letter, and blurred the ink of his handwriting… and as I continue on reading… “Now, that you have finished reading my answer, if you are satisfied, please open the front door for I am standing outside bringing your favourite bread and fresh milk… I rush to pull open the door, and saw his anxious face, clutching tightly with his hands, the milk bottle and loaf of bread….

Now I am very sure that no one will ever love me as much as he does, and I have decided to leave the flower alone…

That’s life, and love. When one is surrounded by love, the feeling of excitement fades away, and one tends to ignore the true love that lies in between the peace and dullness. Love shows up in all forms, even very small and cheeky forms, it has never been a model; it could be the dullest and boring form… flowers, and romantic moments are only used and appear on the surface of the relationship. Under all this, the pillar of true love stands… and that’s our life… Love, not words win arguments…

Source: Amazing story



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I Love You So Much Mum 



 I Love You So Much Mum



After 21 years of marriage, my wife wanted me to take another woman out to dinner and a movie. She said, “I love you, but I know this other woman loves you and would love to spend some time with you.”

The other woman that my wife wanted me to visit was my MOTHER, who has been a widow for 19 years, but the demands of my work and my three children had made it possible to visit her only occasionally
. That night I called to invite her to go out for dinner and a movie. “What’s wrong, are you well?” she asked.

My mother is the type of woman who suspects that a late night call or a surprise invitation is a sign of bad news. “I thought that it would be pleasant to spend some time with you,” I responded. “Just the two of us.” She thought about it for a moment, and then said, “I would like that very much.”

That Friday after work, as I drove over to pick her up I was a bit nervous. When I arrived at her house, I noticed that she, too, seemed to be nervous about our date. She waited in the door with her coat on. She had curled her hair and was wearing the dress that she had worn to celebrate her last wedding anniversary. She smiled from a face that was as radiant as an angel’s. “I told my friends that I was going to go out with my son, and they were impressed, “she said, as she got into the car. “They can’t wait to hear about our meeting.”

We went to a restaurant that, although not elegant, was very nice and cozy. My mother took my arm as if she were the First Lady. After we sat down, I had to read the menu. Her eyes could only read large print. Half way through the entries, I lifted my eyes and saw Mom sitting there staring at me. A nostalgic smile was on her lips. “It was I who used to have to read the menu when you were small,” she said. “Then it’s time that you relax and let me return the favor,” I responded. During the dinner, we had an agreeable conversation – nothing extraordinary but catching up on recent events of each other’s life. We talked so much that we missed the movie. As we arrived at her house later, she said, “I’ll go out with you again, but only if you let me invite you.” I agreed.

“How was your dinner date?” asked my wife when I got home. “Very nice. Much more so than I could have imagined,” I answered.

A few days later, my mother died of a massive heart attack. It happened so suddenly that I didn’t have a chance to do anything for her. Some time later, I received an envelope with a copy of a restaurant receipt from the same place mother and I had dined. An attached note said: “I paid this bill in advance. I wasn’t sure that I could be there; but nevertheless, I paid for two plates – one for you and the other for your wife. You will never know what that night meant for me. I love you, son.”

At that moment, I understood the importance of saying in time: “I LOVE YOU” and to give our loved ones the time that they deserve. Nothing in life is more important than your family. Give them the time they deserve, because these things cannot be put off till “some other time.”

Source: Amazing stories  


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Seven Little Truths - in life  

Seven Little Truths - in life  



1st
Don't let someone become a priority in your life, when you are just an option in their life. Relationships work best when they are balanced..
2nd
Never explain yourself to anyone. Because the person who likes you doesn't need it and the person who doesn't like you won't believe it..
3rd
When you keep saying you are busy, then you are never free.When you keep saying you have no time, then you will never have time. When you keep saying that you will do it tomorrow, then your tomorrow will never come..
4th
When we wake up in the morning, we have two simple choices. Go back to sleep and dream, or wake up and chase those dreams. Choice is yours..
5th
We make them cry who care for us. We cry for those who never care for us. And we care for those who will never cry for us.This is the truth of life, it's strange but true. Once you realize this, it's never too late to change..
6th
Don't make promises when you are in joy. Don't reply when you are sad.
Don't take decision when you are angry.Think twice, act once..
7th
Time is like river. You can't touch the same water twice, because the flow that has passed will never pass again
"Someone Asked Swami Vivekanand: "What is poison ?"
and he answered: "Everything excess in life, is poison"....
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Source: Swami,V.

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MOTHER You Mean a lot to me.
Mother and Child





Mother you mean the world too me!!!




This story begins when I was a child:
I was NOT born RICH. Often we hadn't enough to eat. Whenever we had some food, Mother often gave me her portion of food-while she was transferring her food into my bowl, she would say "Eat this food, son! I'm not hungry." This was Mother's First Lie.


As I grew, mother gave up her spare time to fish in a river near our house; she hoped that from the fish she caught, she could give me a little bit more nutritious food for my growth. Once she had caught just two fish, she would make fish soup. While I was eating the soup, mother would sit beside me and eat  what was still left on the bone of the fish I had eaten, My heart was touched when I saw it.

Once, I gave the other fish to her on my chopstick but she immediately refused it and said, "Eat this fish, son! I don't really like fish. " This was mother's Second Lie.

Then, in order to fund my education, mother went to a Match Factory to bring home some used matchboxes, which she filled with fresh matchsticks. This helped her get some money to cover our needs. One wintry night, I woke to find mother filling the matchboxes by candle light.

So I said, “mother, go to sleep; it's late: you can continue working tomorrow morning." Mother smiled and said "Go to sleep, son! I'm not tired. " This was Mother's Third Lie.

When I had to sit my final examination, mother accompanied me. After dawn, mother waited for me for hours in the heat of the sun. When the bell rang, I ran to meet her,mother embraced me and poured me a glass of tea that she had prepared in a thermos. The tea was not as strong as my mother's love, seeing mother covered with perspiration; I at once gave her my glass and asked her to drink too. Mother said "Drink, son! I'm not thirsty!". This was Mother's Fourth Lie.

After Father's death, mother had to play the role of a single parent. She held on to her former job; she had to fund our needs alone. Our family's life was more complicated. We suffered from starvation. Seeing our family's condition worsening, my kind Uncle who lived near my house came to help us solve our problems big and small. Our other neighbours saw that we were poverty stricken so they often advised my mother to marry again. But mother refused to remarry saying "I don't need love. " This was Mother's Fifth Lie


After I had finished my studies and gotten a job, it was time for my old mother to retire but she carried on going to the market every morning just to sell a few vegetables. I kept sending her money but she was steadfast and even sent the money back to me. She said, "I have enough money. " That was Mother's Sixth Lie.

I continued my part-time studies for my Master's Degree. Funded by the American Corporation for which I worked, I succeeded in my studies. With a big jump in my salary, I decided to bring Mother to enjoy life in America but Mother didn't want to bother her son; she said to me “I’m not used to high living. “That was Mother's Seventh Lie.

In her old age,mother was attacked by cancer and had to be hospitalized. Now living far across the ocean, I went home to visit Mother who was bed ridden after an operation. Mother tried to smile but I was heartbroken because she was so thin and fragile but mother said, “Don’t cry, son! I'm not in pain. " That was Mother's Eighth Lie Hmmmmmmm-telling me this her eighth lie, she died. YES, MOTHER WAS AN ANGEL!


M - O - T - H - E - R ..........................................................................................
"M" is for the Million things she gave me,love, protection, warmth,attention, smiles etc
"O" means only that she's growing old (she is still beautiful and amazing)
"T" is for the Tears she shed to save me
"H" is for her Heart of gold
"E" is for her Eyes with love-light shining in them
"R" means Right, and right she'll always be-bless you mum.....


Put them all together, they spell "MOTHER" a word that means the world to me.........

Now send in your comments about your mum and  share if your mother means the whole world to you.
May God bless all mothers and future mothers.




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